One very straightforward way to think about MBCT is as a method of helping people look objectively at their depression. To do this, there are several strategies that expert practitioners of MBCT employ in the groups that they lead, all of them designed to help people separate the depression they live with from the people they are.
Moment-to-Moment Awareness
Moment-to-moment awareness is an intentional practice of paying attention to what’s going on in the body in real-time. It asks people to listen to their bodies and acknowledge each of the thoughts and emotions they experience. Because it can be done at whatever pace makes most sense for each person, it’s a really good way for people to enter into their mindfulness practice. It also acts as a primer for other strategies, setting the stage for more concentrated exploration of mindfulness later on.
Decentering
Decentering is the next step in deepening mindfulness practice, and it asks participants to take a step back and withdraw judgment from the memories, thoughts, and feelings they experience. That means looking at thoughts and emotions objectively, without judgment or reactivity; no labeling them as good or bad; no trying to fix them or resolve them. Obviously, it’s a strategy that’s easier said than done, but it’s important to remember that mindfulness, like most things, is a process, one that takes time and practice. It’s important to stick this one out (even when it’s hard) because taking this intentional and non-judgmental approach to experiences is a really effective way to prevent those experiences from triggering depressive episodes—and that can be a game-changer for people who live with recurrent depression.
Developing an Open Response Mode
Because stressful situations can trigger our fight-or-flight response, when faced with them, we often react with an emotion such as anger, worry, or fear. MBCT focuses on replacing that reaction with one of curiosity and openness—in other words, an open response mode. It’s a way of responding to challenges by having an open and honest perception of them. That means accepting those challenges for what they are and then working to develop a readiness to explore them even when they’re painful. This can be a really revolutionary tool for people who live with recurrent depression because it offers them a strategy for meeting difficult situations and feelings intentionally and with acceptance.
Disengaging from Ruminative Thoughts
Even though we know that obsessive thinking, worry, and regret won’t solve our problems, they’re easy patterns to fall into. A big part of mindfulness practice is learning to turn away from those patterns, intentionally and with purpose. For people who use MBCT, this gives them the power to engage or disengage with negative thoughts and ideas in whatever ways they choose, and that can be really liberating if they’re struggling with chronic depression. For example: if during their practice they think of someone they are in contention with and immediately feel anger, they can choose to approach that struggle as an opportunity for continued emotional growth, or, if they’d rather, to disengage from it entirely. It’s about becoming conscious of our thoughts, being intentional about which ones to indulge, and channeling our energy towards the thoughts that don’t increase our stress.