Identifying your on-the-job triggers is the first step to better managing workplace stress and worry. If you know what makes you feel worse, you can start to make changes. While you cannot control every element of your workplace, you might be able to take some steps to reduce stress.
If you need more time to get projects done, for instance, it might be a reasonable request to make to your boss. If money is a problem, consider asking for a raise. For factors you cannot change, learn how to cope with the daily stresses of working:
1. Write Out Your Worries.
An important strategy for managing anxiety is to allow your negative feelings to pass through you. Recognize them, acknowledge them, and then let those worries go. Try writing down what makes you anxious or nervous. Set aside a time during the day when you let the feelings wash through you. Writing them down in the moment is a powerful way to release unhealthy and unhelpful thoughts.
2. Talk to Someone About Your Feelings.
Talking it out is another excellent way to release negative thoughts and worries. Turn to someone you trust, whether a coworker or a friend you can call. Tell them how you’re feeling. They don’t need to provide advice for you to feel better. Just having someone who listens and cares can help you manage stress in the moment.
3. Take Mindfulness Timeouts.
Try a quick mindfulness meditation: close your eyes, breath in and out slowly and deeply, and focus on the breaths and your physical sensation. This focus on the present moment and physical sensations takes your mind away from anxious thoughts and will help you feel relaxed. A break of just a minute or two can help you relax and get your mind back on track, even in the middle of the workday.
4. Question Your Anxious Thoughts.
When you’re in the throes of anxiety, your thoughts are not very reliable or accurate. Your brain is inflating a stressful situation and creating misplaced anxiety. When you have these thoughts, stop and question them. Are your thoughts true or exaggerated? Are you being unnecessarily critical of yourself? Dismiss or contradict the thoughts that are not rational or helpful.