If you struggle with high-functioning anxiety, you have probably wrestled with the decision of whether or not to get help. Perhaps you did, but found your treatment ineffective and decided you were better off coping on your own. Or, perhaps you decided instead to use your anxious tendencies to thrive in environments where its defining traits can be beneficial, as Maria did.
“Most people don’t see someone with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) when they look at me,” says Maria. “They see someone who’s hyper-vigilant and organized. I’m great at compartmentalizing my life and a master at deflecting, so no one notices that it’s fear that pushes me to be this way. They don’t see the struggle, just the results.”
The defining feature of high-functioning anxiety—your ability to carry out your daily routine with seemingly no trouble, at least from an outsider’s perspective—is also what makes it hard to recognize, not just for others but even for you. And yet, the key to recovery lies in doing exactly that—recognizing your struggle for what it is, so that you can take steps to overcome it. “I thought, ‘this is just the way I am,’” says Maria. “It just didn’t occur to me that my fear was anything other than a normal part of my life. My diagnosis and the treatment that followed changed everything.”


